Here’s a general rule. When an insult is directed at a woman, consider how it would have sounded directed at a man. If the result is ridiculous, then it’s probably sexist.
my 6 year old male cousin got so angry and went “well why can you see my chest but not your chests, like what makes them different” to all my female cousins, sisters, and me and i told him “there is no difference there is no reason why one can be seen and not the other” and literally everyone in the room but my cousin and me looked at me like i had just killed a man
It doesn’t have to be romantic (though if you did feel that way, it’d be perfectly fine). Just how you feel in general. I get curious of people’s impressions of me.
Social anxiety isn’t cute it’s not an accessory you can slap on when you want to seem ‘different’ from the people around you it fucking blows it is a huge inconvenience to people’s lives & it ruins anything I do daily please understand that before treating it like an addition to an image you want to have to others
Never not reblog
One thing that always bothered me about that picture of mulan, more than the obvious artifice which is pretty out of character, is the colour of her outfit. The general consensus seems to be that mulan took place in the Northern Wei dynasty, but during the Tang Dynasty which preceded it, the colour yellow, especially bright yellow, had become the exclusive domain of the Emperor. And in those times disrespect to the Emperor could cost you your head at best and the lives of you and your entire family at worst. So, y know, maybe don’t put her in yellow clothes.
I love the history side if tumblr